Bodysex 2025
Workshop & Retreats!
March 29 & 30
May 17 & 18
July 26 & 27
October 11 & 12
Step Into the Sacred Circle of Transformation
Are you ready to reclaim your confidence, embrace your pleasure, and feel truly alive?
Bodysex is more than a workshop—it’s a journey. A sacred space to shed shame, connect with your body, and awaken your full power.
As Featured on Netflix’s The Goop Lab
Betty Dodson’s Bodysex legacy has inspired women around the world to embrace their authentic selves. I’ve been honored to facilitate these transformative retreats since 2016, and it’s my privilege to guide you on this incredible path of empowerment.
What You’ll Experience
Open, judgment-free conversations about your sexuality—the good, the bad, and the vulnerable.
Tools and practices to connect with your body, unlock your orgasm, and ignite your radiance.
Two days of unconditional love and support from a small group of like-minded sisters.
You’ll leave feeling confident, passionate, and empowered—ready to live boldly and authentically.
Why Wait?
This is your time to celebrate yourself. Don’t let fear or self-doubt hold you back. Spots are limited, so take bold action and reserve your place in the circle today.
Not Ready for the Circle?
If the group setting doesn’t feel right for you now, or if travel isn’t an option, I also offer:
One-on-One Virtual Bodysex Sessions
Private Orgasm Coaching, available as Personal Retreats or via Zoom
Questions?
I’d love to connect with you! Schedule a free 15-minute discovery call with me here. Let’s chat about your needs and see what feels right for you.
Embrace Yourself. Release Shame. Celebrate Pleasure.
Your transformation starts with one step—let’s take it together!
“I don’t really know how to describe my experience with Bodysex. I guess life-changing is a good place to start... I experienced sisterhood and witnessing on a level that I’ve always craved but didn’t know was possible. I experienced depth of pleasure that were unknown to me before the workshop. I had peaks of radical self acceptance that I want more of. Like all the time. I held space for others while holding me first. I want every single woman to experience this. Like I want to shake every woman I come across and tell them what’s possible!!”
Reclaim Your Power. Rediscover Your Joy.
In a world that trivializes women’s sexuality and shames us for desiring pleasure, many of us have disconnected from the most powerful parts of ourselves. We’ve been conditioned to bury our desires and ignore our worth—and that’s where our full self-expression gets blocked.
That’s why Bodysex Workshops are so transformative. These experiences guide you through shedding shame, overcoming body image struggles, and embracing the full potential of your pleasure.
The Legacy of Bodysex
For over 40 years, Betty Dodson has pioneered this life-changing workshop, guiding women on the journey to healing and empowerment. Now, the Joyful Self Love Institute is honored to bring her signature Bodysex Workshop to the West Coast, continuing a legacy that has transformed countless lives.
“The Bodysex Workshop is more than an exercise in physical self-love. It is an expansion of self-knowledge and acceptance –the act of willingly embracing the gift of being a vital, potent woman.”
Love Your Body. Liberate Yourself. Celebrate in Sisterhood.
Just as our ancestors gathered in circles, we come together as a small, intimate group of women. We share our bodies, our experiences, and our orgasms in a safe space of trust and understanding. Here, we:
Discover the beauty and wisdom of our female anatomy
Practice techniques for exploring and unlocking our pleasure
Celebrate our bodies and our stories
The workshop is clothing-optional, offering you the freedom to choose what feels empowering for you. It’s about honoring your body and feeling liberated in your choices.
Uncover Your Body. Rediscover Your Authentic Self.
The act of unveiling your body becomes a powerful metaphor for unlocking your joy, power, and confidence. You’ll leave this workshop not just with new techniques, but with a renewed sense of self-worth and an expanded sense of pleasure.
Are you ready to step into your power, feel more alive than ever, and embrace the support of your sisters? Reserve your spot today!
Join the Circle. Reclaim Your Pleasure.
Together, we explore the deep, transformative power of sexuality, orgasm, masturbation, body image, and pleasure. The Bodysex workshop is an experience that will change you forever, unlocking new levels of self-awareness, confidence, and connection. This is your chance to discover and embrace your best sexual self in a safe, supportive space.
Who’s Welcome?
If you identify as a woman, you’re invited to join the March and July circles—whether or not you are a vulva owner. All are welcome here, and I’m committed to ensuring you feel safe, respected, and supported, no matter your background, age, sexual orientation, race, or country of origin.
If you’re unsure whether this workshop is right for you or have concerns about feeling safe, please don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m happy to have a conversation and ensure you feel comfortable before committing.
For May & October, the Bodysex workshop is specifically for vulva owners only.
This is a circle of sisterhood, and all who join are treated with unconditional respect, compassion, and understanding.
“The healing part, in the company of other women who have experienced their own nightmares, cannot be replicated in other places.”
“A Goddess in Training: I have spent the last twenty-five years recovering from extreme childhood sexual abuse. I’ve used a variety of modalities from psychotherapy to acupuncture to five-day silent retreats. The body sex workshop provided me the setting for what I consider my final step in healing. I recommend it to sex abuse survivors at all stages of recovery. ”
“In the weeks after the workshop, I have opened up more and feel less inhibited. I also realize how important it is to practice masturbation to learn more about what gives me pleasure and empower my sexual self. There has been an obvious “letting go” and loosening that has increased my interest in sexual activity – a huge milestone for me.
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“Added lots more self pleasure to my life! Connecting to a part of myself that is wholesome, real, and amazing!
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Aubrey
Amanda
“The BodySex Workshop healed my body and spirit. I was raised in a church in which women were to keep silent and feminine intuition was shunned. The weekend I spent at Amy’s beautiful home with a group of women who are beautiful both inside and out made me feel a part of the Goddess religions I have always wanted to embrace. I felt seen and touched and adored by God Herself/Himself.”
Eva
Maryann
Join the Circle - Reserve Your Spot Before It’s Sold Out!
Workshop & Retreat Details
Dates:
March 29 & 30 – Open to all who identify as women
May 17 & 18 – For vulva-owners only
July 26 & 27 – Open to all who identify as women
October 11 & 12 – For vulva-owners only
Workshop Schedule:
Saturday & Sunday: Noon to 6pm
Optional Monday Morning Bonus Session: Join us for a delightful breakfast followed by a Show & Tell of our favorite sex toys, tools, and discoveries.
Location:
Dayenu Wind Mountain Retreat Center, Stevenson, WA
Nestled in the heart of the Columbia River Gorge National Scenic Area, 45 minutes east of Portland, OR.
Closest airport: Portland International Airport (PDX)
Cost:
$700 for the full workshop.
Limited to 10 participants, ensuring a truly intimate and transformative experience.
Money-Back Guarantee:
I believe in this workshop so much that I offer a full refund if you’re not completely satisfied (minus the cost of any add-ons). I’ve hosted this workshop for years, and no one has ever taken me up on the refund offer.
Optional Add-Ons:
Enhance your experience with these exclusive add-ons:
Hitachi Magic Wand Cordless Vibrator – $135
Betty’s Barbell – $135
2-Night Stay (Saturday & Sunday) with delicious breakfast each morning (price varies)
For out-of-town guests, I can also arrange Friday night lodging for a seamless experience.
Overnight Lodging:
Transform your experience into a full retreat with overnight accommodations on my serene 10-acre property. I can host up to 6 guests in a cozy, inviting space, complete with a hot tub and lush natural surroundings. Reconnect with yourself and your sisters as you embrace a deeper level of relaxation and transformation.
Bonus Morning:
On Monday morning, join us for an optional Show & Tell, where we share not only our favorite sex toys and tools but also the insights and wisdom that have fueled our personal pleasure journeys. This is an empowering space where you’ll bond with your fellow sisters and leave with new tools and perspectives for living your fullest, most authentic life.
Why Stay Overnight?
Staying overnight deepens your connection to the retreat experience and provides more time to bond with your Bodysex sisters. The retreat space is designed for relaxation, rejuvenation, and true self-discovery. You’ll leave feeling empowered, confident, and ready to shine in the world.
Lodging: Complete Your Retreat Experience
Transform your Bodysex workshop into a full retreat by staying on-site in a cozy, welcoming space. Your 2-night stay includes two hearty breakfasts, offering plenty of nourishing options to suit all tastes and dietary preferences.
My beautiful home is designed to be a peaceful sanctuary—perfect for unwinding, connecting, and immersing yourself fully in the transformative journey ahead. As the day winds down, enjoy quiet moments of reflection, deepen your bonds with your Bodysex sisters, and unwind in the hot tub for a truly restorative experience.
The time you spend here is a vital part of the retreat, allowing you to integrate your learning, relax deeply, and fully embrace the power of the weekend. Space is limited, and rooms are offered on a first-come, first-served basis, so be sure to sign up early to claim your spot!
Lodging Options:
Private Bedroom with Queen Bed – $140/night
Shared Bedroom with Two Twin Beds – $100/person/night
Cozy Downstairs Studio (Twin Mattress on the Floor) – $100/night
Pullout Sofa in the Spacious Great Room (Double Bed) – $80/night
All rooms share 2.5 bathrooms, making for a comfortable and communal retreat experience.
To see photos of the space and get a feel for the atmosphere, feel free to email me directly, or check out the listing on Airbnb for a closer look.
Sample Workshop Agenda
Welcome, Beautiful!
You’ll be greeted by me in the nude, and you are invited to dress or undress as feels right for you. The weekend is clothing optional, with the key word being optional. There is no right or wrong way to be here—just what feels best in the moment. Vulnerability will look different for each of us. Our goal for the weekend is to shed the masks and armor we’ve accumulated and reconnect with our authentic, joyful selves. By removing the clothes that often hide our true nature, we open ourselves to deeper connection and healing. We will focus on honoring and seeing each other as we truly are, free from judgment and full of compassion.
Confidentiality & Safe Sharing
This is a safe space, and everything you share here is sacred. You are welcome to ask any question or share your experiences, but we honor confidentiality—each person’s story is theirs alone. We accept and support each other with compassion and love.
Exploring Bodies & Orgasms
We’ll dive into how we truly feel about our bodies and orgasms. Through first-person sharing, you’ll be amazed at both the similarities and differences between our experiences. At my first Bodysex workshop, I was married for 20 years and had never discussed my body or my orgasms in a deep, meaningful way. Our society often creates a disconnect between women and their sexuality, leading to shame and silence. But here, you’ll find a safe space to talk about it all—unfiltered, open, and real.
Genital Show & Tell
You're not in Kindergarten anymore, Dorothy! If you’ve ever felt like you don’t measure up “down there,” I want to reassure you that you are normal—whatever that means for you! There is vast diversity in female anatomy, and all vulvas are beautiful in their own right. During this segment, we will study Betty Dodson’s detailed anatomical drawings and then take turns sharing and admiring each other’s unique bodies. I’ll go first to set the tone. You are in charge of your own boundaries—only participate in what feels right for you. This exercise may feel vulnerable, but it’s also incredibly empowering. Pussy adoration equals pussy power, and this ritual will leave you feeling stronger than ever!
Masturbation Discussion
We’ll discuss how we feel about masturbation, and explore the art of pleasuring ourselves. We’ll learn about different types of orgasms and masturbation techniques, and I’ll introduce you to Betty Dodson’s famous Rock ‘n Roll technique using the Hitachi Magic Wand and Betty’s Barbell. This is about deepening your connection to your own pleasure and learning new ways to pleasure your body.
Erotic Recess
Group masturbation may sound intimidating, but trust me—it’s incredibly beautiful. This is not about achieving orgasm; it’s about self-love, acceptance, and connecting with your own body in the presence of supportive sisters. It may be the most liberating experience of your life. I personally experienced my first orgasm during a Bodysex workshop, and I’m here to show you that this work can open doors to deep self-love and joy.
Group Massage
In small groups, we will spend a few minutes with each participant, offering non-sexual but loving touch. This is an opportunity to give and receive caring touch in a respectful, consensual way, and it will be the only time all weekend that anyone else will physically touch you. This practice deepens the connections between us, supporting us as we move toward greater self-love and acceptance.
Reflection Circle
We’ll close the weekend with a reflection circle, where we’ll talk about what we’ve learned and how we can take these lessons into our everyday lives. You’ll have a chance to share what resonated most with you and how you can carry the empowerment and pleasure you’ve discovered back into your world.
QUESTIONS?
If you have any questions about whether this workshop is right for you, please request a 15 minute free consultation, here. And check out the FAQs below.
Interested in private, one-on-one coaching instead of this workshop? I do a lot of this! Let's talk and see if we would work well together.
About the Joyful Self Love Institute
At the Joyful Self Love Institute, we are dedicated to helping people of all shapes, sizes, and ages embrace their bodies with love, acceptance, and pleasure. Our mission is to create supportive relationships with ourselves, heal body shame, and celebrate the transformative power of sexuality.
Through our workshops and private coaching, people rediscover their wholeness, feeling empowered, loved, and beautiful. Here, we replace shame and regret with hope, self-understanding, and the deep realization of the power that comes from connecting to our bodies. This life-changing work is achieved through a combination of education, empowerment, and the power of self-pleasure. We believe that we are our own best lovers, and through this truth, we unlock the keys to full self-expression and joy.
About Workshop Facilitator, Amy Weissfeld, she/her
Meet Amy Weissfeld, a passionate advocate for self-empowerment and a lifelong lover of pleasure. Amy’s mission is to guide people on a journey of self-love and body acceptance by helping them shed the heavy weight of body shame and cultural repression.
As a Certified Betty Dodson Bodysex Facilitator, Orgasm Coach, and Somatic Sex Educator, Amy leads women to embrace their sexual power with confidence and joy. Amy believes that by fully understanding our bodies and tapping into our pleasure, we not only become better lovers but also happier, more authentic individuals.
Her approach is grounded in sex positivity, empowerment, and the belief that pleasure is a right. Amy’s personal journey has shaped her understanding of how powerful it is to let go of negative self-perceptions and reclaim our sexuality, and she is deeply committed to helping women experience this transformation.
Amy’s Core Belief: Knowing and loving yourself, body and soul, is the ultimate path to self-empowerment. It makes you a better person, partner, and lover.
When Amy isn’t guiding people on their transformative journeys, you’ll find her enjoying skinny dipping, laughter, adventure, and quiet moments in the woods or on the mountain. She’s deeply inspired by strong women, the playful nature of dogs, and the beauty found in both intimacy and the world around us.
Want to learn more? Click here to explore Amy’s work or visit the Somatic Sex Educators Association, where she’s proud to be a member and formerly on the board.
Amy with Betty Dodson & Carlin Ross at certification workshop
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FAQs
Questions? Below are a few common ones, but if you don’t see yours here, please ask me directly! Amy@JoyfulSelfLove.com or 503.516.1800. Hope to see you in the circle!
+ Is this workshop for CIS-women only?
No. Anyone with a vulva is welcome, regardless of anatomy at birth. The spirit of Bodysex is about sharing our experiences, embracing ourselves, learning about our anatomy/vulvas and how to increase pleasure. All sisters are welcome as my experience has been that most vulva-owners feel safest being vulnerable in this way with other vulva-owners.
+ What if I have my period?
No problem. I often have my period for workshops. You can use a tampon, menstrual cup, or natural sea sponge during genital show & tell and erotic recess.
+ What if I have a yeast infection?
No problem. I personally use boric acid pills, others use cranberry pills or monistat, but whatever treatment works for you is fine. Just treat yourself as you normally would, and come join us in the circle.
+ What if I can't orgasm?
If you orgasm, great. If you don't, that's ok too. Orgasm is NOT the goal. We're here to heal body shame, overcome sexual guilt and experience true sisterhood. There's no agenda and no expectations.
+ Do I have to buy the Magic Wand & Barbell?
I provide both the Magic Wand and the Barbell to use during the workshop. If you want to keep them, you do need to purchase them. They are $135 each.
+ Can I bring my own barbell and wand?
Yes. If you've already purchased the barbell and the wand, you can bring them with you to the workshop.
+ Can I bring something to eat?
Of course, please feel free to bring whatever you like. I provide beverages and lots of healthy snacks during the workshop. For overnight guests, breakfast is included and dietary restrictions can be accommodated if I'm informed of them ahead of time.
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